The Hidden Threat to Your Marriage
One of the quiet dangers that can undermine even the strongest marriages isn’t infidelity or constant conflict — it’s something far more subtle: alternative monitoring. This psychological term refers to the habit of mentally evaluating or fantasizing about what life might be like with someone other than your spouse. It’s more…
Doing Time or Doing Love
A ten-year-old girl and boy were asked: How do you decide who to marry? The boy said, “You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like, if you like sports, she should like it that you like sports, and she should keep the chips and dip coming.” The girl answered, “No person really decides…
Is Friendship the Missing Link in Your Marriage?
When we first fall in love, friendship often lays the foundation. We talk for hours, share dreams, laugh over silly things, and genuinely enjoy each other’s company. But somewhere along the journey of shared bills, schedules, and responsibilities, many couples lose sight of that original bond. What happens when the…
One of the Best Gifts to Give Your Spouse
As you scurry and scramble trying to finish your Christmas shopping, please remember this: It’s not so much about what’s under the Christmas tree that counts…it’s what’s in your heart that matters. Extravagant Christmas gifts are all well and good. But I assure you, a fancy gift is not as valuable…
The 15-Hour Marriage Magic: How to Prioritize Your Relationship
15 hours. That’s the magic number when it comes to maintaining a healthy marriage. Yes, you read that right—just 15 hours a week spent together can help keep your relationship thriving. But here’s the catch: this time is just for the two of you—no kids, no friends, no family distractions….
How Thankful Are You for Your Marriage?
As we approach the holiday, it’s a perfect time to reflect on your relationship. How thankful are you for your marriage? What changes could deepen your appreciation for the bond you share with your partner? Taking a moment to consider these questions can lead to valuable insights. Reflect on Your…
Funny and…Not So Funny
The importance of humor in marriage cannot be underestimated. It brings healing to the heart and soul and most singles list ‘sense of humor’ as the most important factor in a mate. Laughter bonds people – especially in relationships. It helps if you find similar things funny since you’ll be…
Top Ten List for Marriage
People have a thing for TOP TEN lists — it seems they’re everywhere! Well, for this week, I have a twist on the top ten list. Here it is: Make a list of 10 things you like about your mate. I’m asking YOU to make your very own top ten…
The Power Of Gratitude To Unlock A Happier (Much Happier) Marriage
You have so much power. Consider how happy you are, how stressed you feel, and how well you sleep. But how often do we think those things are out of our control because we feel we’re at the mercy of our circumstances. In moments of stress and overwhelm, we can…
How tо Bе An AMAZING Spouse
Ever catch yourself thinking and wishing your wife or husband was a better spouse? A lot of people do. But how often do we evaluate ourselves to see how good a spouse we are and how we can be better? Why not ask yourself now: How good of a spouse…