Non-Verbal Ways to De-escalate Fights and Marital Problems
There are times when talking about your marital problems with your spouse only leads to frustration and more conflict. What do you do in such cases? Do you just abandon communication in marriage all together and start giving your spouse the silent treatment? The truth is that just because verbal…
Compromise isn’t Always Easy in Married Life
You’ve probably heard many times that married life is all about compromise. But, what happens when there’s no easy compromise or when there’s no possible win-win? Sometimes, situations arise in marriage where spouses differ over a fundamental issue for which there’s no easy compromise. For instance, if your partner wants…
Relationship Tips: Loving Without Expectation
We all have illusions of what love and marriage should be like. Some of those ideas and relationship tips come from our parents while others come from movies, books etc. The thing about these illusions is that they are rarely ever realistic. All they do is make it extremely difficult…
What is Marital Counseling Like?
Going to marital counseling for the first time can be a little nerve wracking. One of the most common fears that people have when going to couple’s counseling for the first time is that the counselor will take their partner’s side. They fear that the counselor is just going to…
3 Marital Problems That Can Sneak Up On You
Not all marital problems are obvious. There are some issues that appear minor at first glance but if left alone, they can build up and blow up into a major problem. Knowing what these issues are can help you nip them in the bud before they ruin your marriage. Poor…
Being Friends and Lovers – Married Life
Friendship is one of the basic building blocks of a happy marriage, and spouses should strive to be just as much friends as they are lovers. The relationship between a husband and wife should go beyond intimacy in marriage; the two should like each other as people and have shared…
We’re Just Not Compatible – Marital Problems
Some people realize that they are a lot less compatible than they thought after they are married. It’s why people often say, “he’s/she’s not the person I thought I married.”However, contrary to what many people think, incompatibility doesn’t have to lead to divorce. It is very possible to have a…
Marital Problems: Are you Feeling Manipulated?
Manipulation is the act of influencing someone’s feelings, beliefs or behavior through mental and emotional exploitation. The manipulator’s end goal is usually to get what they want without asking for it directly and to mould the other person into someone who serves their purposes. It goes without saying that this…
Communication in Marriage: My Partner is All Talk and No Action
Everyone knows that communication in marriage is the secret to a happy and long married life. However, all that communication must be backed by some action otherwise it’s all in vain. If your partner talks a good game but does not come through when you need him, you know exactly…
Affair Recovery – Getting Your Spouse’s Trust Back After an Affair
You had an affair and your wife or husband found out, but she or he has decided to forgive you and the two of you are on your way to affair recovery. However, everything has changed. Your spouse is a lot more suspicious now, you can tell that the trust…