Are You Listening to Your Spouse, Or Just Waiting to Respond?
How often do you really listen to your spouse? Now, before you answer that question, let me ask you another one. If I asked your spouse whether you understand what’s on their heart and why it matters to them, what would they say? That’s a different question, isn’t it? Most…
The Four Scariest Words in Marriage: “We Need to Talk”
There are four little words that can make even the most confident husband or wife a little nervous. “We need to talk.” Suddenly, your mind starts racing. What did I do? What did I forget? Is something wrong? And the conversation hasn’t even started yet! Now, sometimes those words really…
How Negative Communication Patterns Sabotage Your Relationship
Research shows that the way couples communicate is the strongest predictor of relationship breakdown—and here’s how to turn it around.
If Someone Recorded Your Conversations… What Would They Hear?
If someone recorded your private conversations with your spouse,What kind of spouse would they think you are? Would your tone sound harsh?Critical?Negative?Accusatory? That’s a sobering thought, isn’t it? Time for a Quick Self-Check Take a minute right now and really think about this. Not to feel guilty or ashamed, but…