How often do you and your spouse fight?
How often do you and your spouse fight? (This question may cause mild panic. Or a resigned sigh. Either way, you’re in good company.)
One of the biggest reasons couples come to blows (metaphorically speaking) is not that they hate each other, but that they don’t understand each other’s needs. Which means a lot of wasted energy, hurt feelings, and “Why are we even arguing about this again?” moments.