Does Your Spouse Think You’re Boring?
Or maybe the better question is… do you think your spouse is boring? One of the most common concerns couples have shared with us over the years is this: “Our marriage feels dull and boring… because my spouse is just too predictable.” Sound familiar? Let’s be honest and tell me…how predictable…
Stop Fighting Fair If You Want a Great Marriage
That’s right. I said stop fighting fair. We’ve all heard the classic advice: “If you want a healthy relationship, you need to fight fair.” But what if fighting fair is actually keeping couples stuck in cycles of conflict, resentment, and emotional distance? Let’s take a closer look. What Does “Fighting Fair” Really…
How to Build a Beautiful Life…and Marriage
We hear a lot of words used to describe a great life: abundant, successful, good, fulfilled. But what about beautiful? What if your life — and your marriage — could be described not just by what you accomplish or how much you have, but by the beauty that flows from within?A beauty shaped by kindness,…
Thinking About Having an Affair? Read This First
If you’ve ever flirted with the idea of having an affair — even just in your thoughts — this article is for you. Let’s start with a sobering fact:A study of 4,200 executives who had an affair revealed that only 3% of them ended up marrying the person they had the…
Is Your Marriage In A Rut? Here’s A Simple Way To Liven It Up
Is your marriage feeling dull or boring? Do you and your spouse do the same things over and over again? Do you eat at the same restaurants, sit in the same seats, drive the same routes — all without ever trying something new? Have you become slaves to routine and…
How Much Time Does Your Marriage Really Get?
I’ve been wanting to ask you something that’s kind of personal. So here it goes: How important is your marriage to you? If you were really honest with yourself and counted the number of hours you and your spouse spend together each week — just the two of you —…
Could You Be Headed for Divorce Without Even Knowing It?
Could you be headed for divorce without even knowing it? Here’s how to find out – and if you are headed for divorce, you need to take action today. Researchers have identified that negative communication patterns are the #1 predictor of divorce. It’s not infidelity, abuse, or even a lack of…
Are You Unknowingly Ruining Your Marriage?
You could be sabotaging your marriage and not even realize it — even while your heart is fully set on saving it. How? Through power and control. It might not be intentional. It might even come from a place of fear, frustration, or desperation to fix what feels broken. But when…
Doing Time or Doing Love
A ten-year-old girl and boy were asked: How do you decide who to marry? The boy said, “You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like, if you like sports, she should like it that you like sports, and she should keep the chips and dip coming.” The girl answered, “No person really decides…
Is Friendship the Missing Link in Your Marriage?
When we first fall in love, friendship often lays the foundation. We talk for hours, share dreams, laugh over silly things, and genuinely enjoy each other’s company. But somewhere along the journey of shared bills, schedules, and responsibilities, many couples lose sight of that original bond. What happens when the…