If someone recorded your private conversations with your spouse,
What kind of spouse would they think you are?

Would your tone sound harsh?
Critical?
Negative?
Accusatory?

That’s a sobering thought, isn’t it?

Time for a Quick Self-Check

Take a minute right now and really think about this. Not to feel guilty or ashamed, but just to take an honest inventory.

What kind of words are coming out of your mouth during everyday interactions with your spouse?

Are they:

• Harsh or sharp?
• Critical or impatient?
• Negative or sarcastic?
• Defensive or accusing?

Or are they:

• Warm and inviting?
• Kind and thoughtful?
• Supportive and encouraging?
• Cheerful, hopeful, and forgiving?

Because the way we talk to each other matters more than we often realize.

Words can either build intimacy and safety, or they can create distance and pain.

Your Words Shape the Atmosphere of Your Marriage

This week’s marriage tip is simple, but deeply effective (and we’ll quote some advice from a very wise man):

“Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” — Proverbs 16:24

If your marriage has started to feel tense, cold, or disconnected…
Then sweeten the atmosphere by using kind, pleasant words.

You might be surprised how powerful a soft answer or a kind tone can be, especially when things feel strained.

Start Small. Start Today

You don’t need a grand speech or dramatic gesture.

Just find one opportunity today to say something thoughtful, affirming, or kind.

Say thank you.

Give a compliment.

Express appreciation or affection.

Even the smallest positive word can begin to heal old wounds and open the door to deeper connection.

Final Thought

Your voice is one of the most intimate and influential tools you have in your marriage.
So make it a source of comfort and strength, not criticism or pain.Start today. Choose sweetness over sharpness.
And watch what happens in the heart of your spouse — and your relationship.