Do you pray for your spouse and your marriage?

If so, what specific aspects do you include in your prayers?

Here’s the real question…Do you often find yourself praying for God to change your spouse?

If that is the case, it’s time to consider an alternative approach:

Pray for God to bestow blessings upon your spouse.

This shift in focus can have profound implications. Research indicates that the way we frame our prayers can influence our mindset and emotional well-being. A study published in the Journal of Positive Psychology suggests that gratitude and blessing-oriented prayers are associated with increased levels of happiness and relational satisfaction.

Praying for God to change your spouse can be interpreted as somewhat self-centered, focusing on your desires for the relationship. Conversely, praying for God to bless your spouse reflects a selfless intention, fostering an attitude of generosity and care.

We know that telling your spouse you appreciate and support them contributes significantly to relationship stability and happiness. Imagine what it can do when you incorporate this in your prayer life!  Choose to focus your prayer on all the reasons you are thankful for your spouse, and pray for their needs. Praying for your spouse’s happiness and blessings is powerful.  These prayers will not only adjust your perspective, but they will increase your own happiness!  This single adjustment in your prayer practice can introduce a new dynamic to your marriage. Why not give it a try today?