People have a thing for TOP TEN lists — it seems they’re everywhere! 

Well, for this week, I have a twist on the top ten list. Here it is:

Make a list of 10 things you like about your mate.

I’m asking YOU to make your very own top ten list.  (And let me tell you, it’ll be one of the most important lists you ever make.)

Now, if you’re not married, then make a top ten list of the things you like about your closest friend, or someone in your family, etc. 

Sometime today take ten seconds to contemplate one of the things on your list. 

This helps you connect to your mate or to your friend even when you are apart. 

And, if you are really bold, courageous, and daring, you might even share that one thing. Tell your mate or loved one how important they are to you and how glad you are that he or she is in your life. And then share with them one of your top ten reasons why. 

It’ll make their day.

It’ll make your day, too.People feel under-appreciated. But when you take the initiative to let them know just how much they mean to you by giving them a specific reason, it’ll light up their heart with love, happiness and joy.