Relationship Tips for a Happy Marriage Part 53: Trip to the Pound
Are you and your spouse animal lovers? Would you like to adopt a pet? Read on for tips on how to make your trip to the pound successful and worthwhile.
Relationship Tips for a Happy Marriage Part 53: Trip to the Pound
Are you and your spouse animal lovers? Would you like to adopt a pet?
Studies show that pets are great for relieving stress. This can be beneficial in a relationship or marriage especially during difficult times.
It is also a proven fact that married couples with pets have a better chance of having satisfying relationships. They respond better in highly stressful situations and are also less likely to have stress-related illnesses such as high blood pressure.
What you need to know about adopting pets
Did you have a pet when growing up? If so, you are way ahead of the pack.
Having a pet can quickly turn into a nightmare if a couple is not mentally prepared for it. Both of you should be okay with scooping poo, cleaning hair off the rug and cleaning the animal. If it’s a dog, it will also require walking. Discuss these tasks with your partner before taking a trip to the pound to ensure that he or she is not just in love with the idea of having a family pet.
Secondly, maintaining a pet is expensive. The pet needs food, grooming and, once in a while, a trip to the vet. You may also want to purchase pet insurance which covers the vet bills in the event of an accident or illness. Make sure your budget can handle the extra expenses before you adopt a pet.
Knowing how to set boundaries for pets is also important. You may end up sharing your matrimonial bed with your cat or dog if you are not careful. Since your partner should not have to compete with the pet for your attention, discuss with your partner if and when you should let the pet into your bedroom.
Finding the right pet
If you are interested in adopting a cat, you should know that cats love attention. They require companionship and playtime daily.
The old myth about cats having nine lives is also somewhat true. Cats live long and owing one is a long-term commitment.
You may also need to invest in a scratching post to keep the cat from scratching your furniture. Declawing is also an option but keep in mind that it is extremely painful for them.
If your interest is in adopting a dog, spend some time learning about the different breeds out there. Each breed has a unique character so it is important that you pick one that is compatible with your own character.
Also, consider the space and environment you are bringing the dog into. It is frustrating for a dog to live in a cage; a yard is preferable although not compulsory.
The holiday season is an excellent time to pick a pet to love and take care of. Get started on your journey to adopt a pet today, with these simple tips.