How happy are you with your marriage?

Is it strong and healthy? Or could it use a little boost?

Here’s a simple but powerful tip that can breathe new life into your relationship:

Show your spouse that you’re genuinely happy to see them and that you have no plans for their improvement.

Sounds easy, right? But think about it…

How often do we unconsciously send the message:
“I love you, but I really wish you’d change this one thing…”

That quiet, persistent urge to “improve” your spouse can slowly chip away at connection.
On the other hand, acceptance builds trust, warmth, and happiness.

Acceptance = happiness.
It really is that simple (and that hard).

One mindset shift that helps?

Don’t judge.

Try listening to your spouse without immediately jumping to conclusions or getting defensive.
Stay open. Be curious.
And remember: Their point of view is just as valid as yours.

Even if you completely disagree, it doesn’t mean they’re wrong.

Marriages built on mutual respect and emotional safety last.
But when criticism and defensiveness start taking over, happiness quickly fades.

So, here’s your challenge for the week:
Accept your spouse exactly as they are and let them feel how glad you are to be with them.

A warm greeting at the door. A kind word. A moment of listening without an agenda.
Small things. Big impact.You might be surprised at how quickly things begin to shift when your spouse feels truly seen, heard, and accepted